Empowerment of the Self
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Say it to yourself "I don't need to control a person. I need to control myself."
"Star language: Na-meh-oh-tou-lah-meh-oiu-toi-mei".
Empowerment is done with a being when we feel a struggle. WE are all fighting a war, be it with addictions, drugs, sex, manipulation, or enslavement of some sort. People want to be in power. They want to take control. They want to hurt others and enforce. Why? Because life is beauty, Life is love, Life is free, Life is enjoyed, Life is wonderful. Anyone having a crummy day wants to either shit on others because they been shat on. But having power over others is not the problem or solution. It's having the discipline for yourself.
Empowerment feels good when you can sit in silence when others expect you to be in a rage.
Saying words and directing a challenge, issuing threats is just their way of saying they want love and help. They want to be apart of your good deed or joy. They see the way you brighten and shine and they want to do the same thing.
WE DO NOT DO IT THAT WAY. Being empowered we know, that correctly when we give well when we have little, we rise. It may not be the top of the mountain, we may not shout it out or blow a horn or mount a flag -- these are symbols of the ego needing to be worshipped and praised. You'll feel good inside. You will look good outside, and if we are punished by animal slavers who want to hurt the love and the light we must push forward more and all the harder for it. Even if it kills us.
You have to love the ugly about you. Be it your expression, or your feelings of shame or guilt (notice I did not say anything about physical looks), you have to say "This was a lesson not a life sentence" and you press onward and you change your behavior. You don't just keep saying, "I'm sorry" over and over. The best apology is changed behavior. This baggage is doing you no good. You are not the baggage terminal at the airport or bus station. What good is guilt from yesterday or last year doing you? Did you not learn the lesson? Then why are you still carrying the weight?
