I Think I am in Love with a woman / man (same sex)
Posted by Luci Smith 🌛🌝🌜 on January 9, 2024 at 2:42am
I was age 15 when I said to myself "That girl on TV. She's Hot." I have been comfortable with the idea of being with women ever since. It was a random, dip in the mud movie. Nothing fancy. It was the way she carried herself. Didn't know her character name, didn't know her actress name. It was just a statement.
Most people however are not comfortable with bisexual, gay, homosexual, transgender, queer, lesbian, asexual, LGBTQ+ and so on.
I won't bore you with my experience - there have only been three women I have been about and most want me to get them off and then get up and get dressed. One became strangely suicidal after it happened, because she had only been with one man and it bothered her that she was not over him.
It is important as a straight or even bisexual/asexual and so on energy that you understand you are responding to a higher wave of mentality, and chemistry which is ENERGY. The reason we are attracted to people is because of a VIBE. VIBE is energy, their personality combined with their looks is a bonus. The more comfortable you are, and the more comfortable they are with this knowledge and accepting themselves, the better your love connection with your partner.
We aren't flesh, we are spirit energy - we are energy. We are attracted to like energy. We want to be one and around like energy. Some want to vanish into the energy, because they want comfort. I just want a decent dinner and some conversation. It isn't even about kissing or feeling on one another or getting it on. I want to show her she is appreciated and she is a compliment to me. Just as I would if I was with or around a man.
You will not find ascension through a grand relationship, a bond, a link from the past is slavery, no matter how hot or fond of you he or she is, it is slavery, get rid of it and start over, you will see half the time, no link = well they don't want too without the link, gives them a way to prey on you and your feelings and its immature and wrong. Not love. It's slavery to the sex cabal.
If they love you, they will stick by you. They will compliment you. They will think of you. They will be kind to you. Female or male. You'll feel it. You'll just know.
There are very few of these people in the world.
Your body or spirit will clue you in to show you if they are worth it. If they offer to do something with you and you're not feeling it, chances are they are clingy. You don't want a clingy person being with you because that's insecurity, manipulation and forcing you to choose them all the time. Before long they are using you and abusing you and making you feel like you did something wrong when you haven't. You can't please them. Depart. "They just need love, they never had it" yes, they have and they did to them what they are doing to you, or it was done to them and they have not healed. NEVER move in with a clingy insecure person. LISTEN to your body or spirit.
If you want to do something, and they don't want too, they still have a side relationship somewhere. A Side hustle or a marriage and they are seperated or they have to pick up their kids or something. "My mom's sick and in the hospital" is a lame excuse. Just politely leave and don't call or fb them, just politely drop out of their life. If they write you, its because something fell through, and they want a pick me up. Decline because you deserve more in life.
If they (when making said excuse), are rolling their eyes up in their head and looking off to the side of the area you are in, they are mentally thinking you are too into them, even though that is what people do they ask to go out or date, but because they are so stuck where they are, they have forgotten about it, so it's weird behavior to ask them out, because of how they choose to live.
IF the feelings are there, even if its a big old ball of lust, it won't matter, they and you will want to hook up. People need to understand that when you vibe at someone, and they don't return the vibe, then that means something else is going on before hand. Make sure you let someone know online, when you first meet them there that you don't want to be a side hustle or a pick me up on the side. You want to start a legit friendship with them, maybe more.
